Mandii Chan has a wild temper.

easily excited/agitated/frustrated/worry

stubborn when not guilty

strong minded but weak heart

has a strong sense of balance being a Libra

u treat me well, i will do e same to you.

i'll hate you if you hate me.


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12 Nov 2010 @ 10:13 PM

i decided to try and become more positive today by forgoing wat happened ytd.

and i was reading The Straits Time when i come across this section on Recruitment:

How to manage difficult ppl by stating your case calmly without violating their rights.

So, mainly there are ppl out there who displays 3 types of behaviours :
  1. Submissive
  • flight response
  • avoid stating their needs and feelings
  • communicate thier needs and feelings in an apologetic way
  • give others right that they don't claim for themselve

    2. Aggressive

  • fight response
  • encourage others to do thigns either by manipulation and flattery
  • ignore needs of others
  • take rights for themselves that they dont giv to others.

    3. Assertive

  • logical, thinking behaviour
  • being clear and direct
  • stating ur needs and watns in a straightforward way
  • standing up for ur rights without violating the right of others

    Conclusion: Assertive behaviour is encouraged as it is a very positive response in any interaction. it makes it clear to the other person wat is the issue and allows you to calmly state ur case without fighting their rights, hence makes life less stressful for you!
so...ppl, which type of ppl are you?
LOLS.

srsly i think im more on e submissive side.

and im going to make my life easier by going more assertive?

haha.
shit. why am i getting headache and stomachaches nnowadays!?
FML once agn.
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